When in need who will come to a person to help? So many discussions and Talks and conferences around the world, I am also in those conferences and I hear beautiful words. I reflect after every conference I have been to or have been a speaker. Looking at ground level, looking at people around me, my own friends. When someone is in need: who will help? People will ask: are you okay and say they feel sorry. Or they will just gossip about you. Much gossip reaches my eyes and ears every day and I let it go, forget it, about friends and other people, they don't even know or perhaps they do know what is being said about them. They think nobody knows, but in fact, the whole world knows. And of course they do the same about me! Human nature at its best right? You must recognize what I write here. And I myself have also been in situations where I thought: who will help me now? Also upon asking people hesitate. To help. What is that makes people hesitate to help someone? Not to just ask: are you okay? But take initiative to actually do something? In most cases that is what someone needs, that physical support, that little push in the back taking you forward. I am not blaming anyone, but we should observe ourselves better on what we do. I am also part of not taking enough initiative yet (I am improving every day) and that same lack of initiative from a lot of people, who actually think: well that is not really my business, I don't want my own reputation to go, I do not want to get involved or it does not make me better: does not really help anyone :). So we listen to Talks and visit conferences and read books and claim we are there to help this world and in the meanwhile telling all other people, "this person was sick, so sad right? or this person had a fight with ..." not to start about all relationship break up and tie up news my ears reach :). I am not perfect, but a moment of reflection at least makes me realize again how much more work there is to be done for to keep improving every day!
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